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Staying Active and Making Friends in Retirement

Staying physically active and maintaining meaningful social connections are two of the strongest predictors of health, happiness, and longevity in retirement, and both require deliberate effort once the built-in social structure of the workplace is gone.

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Physical activity in retirement does not require a gym membership or intense exercise; consistent moderate activity such as walking, cycling, swimming, yoga, or golf has been shown to reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease, cognitive decline, depression, and falls. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity per week for older adults. On the social side, research from Harvard’s Study of Adult Development, one of the longest-running studies of human happiness, found that the quality of close relationships was the single strongest predictor of wellbeing in later life, more predictive than wealth, fame, or professional achievement. Making new friends in retirement requires putting yourself in situations of repeated contact with others who share interests, whether through fitness classes, volunteer organizations, religious communities, alumni networks, travel groups, or community education programs. For couples, retirement can also shift relational dynamics significantly, as partners who previously spent most of their waking hours apart suddenly share all of their time. Intentionally maintaining individual interests, friendships, and space within a shared retirement life supports both partners’ wellbeing.

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